SO, after talking with my brother and husband, we have decided to let this play out on its own. I do not nor can I control her. She will be in withdraw and then she can deal with this with her doctor. I however, can be there for her. It is all too much. Its not like dealing with one issue, there are many involved and its creating a lot of drama. Par for the course. My brother is concerned. I am concerned. We just want the best for her. What we think is the best is not necessarily what she thinks is the best. So, I will put this to rest. There really is nothing that I can do without causing a gap between us. We did not talk for one year. Now that she is going through these medical problems, I want to be there. However, being there is really hard when there is so much to deal with.