Originally Posted by
afloatsober 
Sounds corny i know but resentment as you describe it really is like 'taking poison and waiting for the other person to die'. They won't and you might is the reality for an alcoholic.
We have to be rid of it for our own recoverys sake....
You are quite right! I am trying to let it go but for some reason hatred seems to be addictive, a sense of power even! However I have to walk away from it!