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Old 03-15-2014, 08:08 AM
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Mits78
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Originally Posted by jessie65 View Post
The 2'nd dream is my hands are huge and I can barely move them. They hurt and I can't even bend my fingers because they are swollen to twice their size.
I cant believe you said this!! I used to get the same thing!!

Its been less than a week since this truth came out of me so i'm no expert on trauma but the the dots are being connected at a rapid pace.

I would suggest reading "Waking the tiger" by Peter Levine. The man is brilliant.

He mentioned how a traumatic event can cause someone to think they were molested even when they weren't. Someone could have been born with a umbilical chord around their neck and caused trauma (anxiety). Our minds are continually covering up the event when our subconscious knows its there. This causes feelings of unreality. We aren't seeing with our eyes (staying in today)what we are feeling in our nervous system.

The most important thing he said is you DONT NEED to know what happened. The trauma just needs to run its course and be completed. Read it!
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