Originally Posted by
DezSantos 
Thank you so much for the links - I found them to be very informative and helpful.
Knowledge is power, Dez! You have to know what you're up against before you can figure out how to deal with it.
I forgot to include a link to Alanon meetings in my earlier post. Here it is:
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/how-to-find-a-meeting