I can resign, but that will leave her to pay her own bills and that will be a mess. Is that the right thing to do with an alcoholic who doesn't recognize they have a problem despite several long term hospitalizations and nursing home stays?
I could ask my oldest brother who now receives her mail to take over as PoA and just pay her bills and take it out of my hands.
My dilemma is what's helping and what's hurting and what can I live with.
Thank you for your reply Hopeful4