Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
so anything that goes wrong will once again be my fault.
no, it's not. that is only what HE will throw out. because he cannot look at himself. it's time to stop giving him so much power. ONE meeting will not cure him or fix him......it takes hundreds...consistent attendance, being involved, becoming part of the fellowship, step studies, working with a sponsor....actively engaged. as it would be with any worthy endeavor...
I know it won't be my fault ... he will think it is my fault once again. It isn't. I can't tolerate it anymore. He had been going to meetings faithfully, working on step one and seeing his sponsor since returning home. Supposed to do 90 meetings in 90 days ... he has let about three or four slide now ... I hope it isn't a sign of things to come.