Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
IMHO, he already IS in mental relapse...he's not doing ANY recovery activities, pouting, lots of excuses, AND yet going to look at apartments tomorrow. he is not invested in getting better, he's looking for a way out.
I agree ... he is looking for a way out ... this is typical of his behaviour in any situation that creates stress for him.
He did leave the house telling our youngest he had to go to a meeting ... whether he truly did, I don't know. I can hope he did, but I can't hold his hand and make him go. He needs to be there and he needs that support ... but right now I'm not sure if he sees that.
We can't afford an apartment right now on top of the house ... not sure what he is thinking ... plus a batchelor pad doesn't exactly set him up for ever having the girls be there. He's angry at me now ... so anything that goes wrong will once again be my fault.