Didn't go to his sponsor's house as he was having an AA gathering and my hubby didn't feel up to seeing anyone.
he's moping around, not going to his AA meetings - says he doesn't feel well. He didn't go this morning (his home meeting) so I just told him he needs to go tonight. So he spouts off about how I (all ME) dropped this bomb on him and he doesn't think he can handle going to meetings right now. I told him he needs the meetings more than ever right now ... then he says he has appointments to go look at apartments tomorrow
I have to protect my girls too if he does relapse
IMHO, he already IS in mental relapse...he's not doing ANY recovery activities, pouting, lots of excuses, AND yet going to look at apartments tomorrow. he is not invested in getting better, he's looking for a way out.