Kdjom, Early recovery must be purgatory. If you feel that your feelings & trust for him are done - then done is done. But if you are done, then you can't worry about where he is or have expectations on when you will hear from him. You have to cut that tie or you are going to drive yourself nuts.
Now I am not saying you don't need to talk to him about sharing the kids and other aspects of separating, but expecting him to check up with you like a partner/husband - nope. Those days are over when you are 'done.'
I'm not much of a cryer. I hate crying. I really know I am in a mess when my tears start up.... Hugs to you at this moment.