Old 02-25-2014, 07:25 AM
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boomtruck
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Join Date: Jan 2014
Location: Washington
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I, too, agree with all the previous posts. I waited until we had to file for bankruptcy. With no support for 17 months it is day to day. I found that most creditors will be patient if you talk with them and explain your situation: They really just want evidence of a payment each month. I use the local food bank, and have for years. Definitely talk to a lawyer and separate asap as this is the only way to keep future bills from becoming yours. When I filed I also filed a financial statement and got all court fees waived due to having no money. Absolutely let his family take care of him. My qualifier has exhausted all avenues aside from a sister he is now living with who he can barely tolerate. You are #1 and have a lot on your plate; however, take priority for yourself, seek help, and go one day at a time. You will be a wonderful example for your children, who are #2.
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