Originally Posted by
Bluebird74 
He has made the statement that money is evil, it is bad, he doesn't care about it.
I bet he'd change his tune if there was no money for alcohol.
As for his mother, if she doesn't want her precious to be troubled with thoughts of supporting his children, she'd better step up to the plate herself.
I'd suggest getting legal advice, doing what you can to make sure you and the children are housed and fed and leave him to cover his own expenses.
I don't see any need to worry about abandoning him; he chose to sabotage his own recovery. Not your problem. Besides, he has Mummy to wipe his backside.