I feel like I'm going crazy just reading your posts. I can only imagine...well, no, I cannot imagine how you are feeling. This has been a nightmare from the very start! Everything is backward!
I'm so glad you were able to get a TRO, and if your attorney won't help you make it permanent, would the Domestic Violence center be able to help with that? There must be something or some way for you to get relief! This whole thing is just mind boggling!
I'm so, SO sorry you are still dealing with this nightmare. ((((HUGS))))