Originally Posted by
lizatola I'm truly way too wrapped up in what my alcoholic is doing, too, and I would love to find a way to stop spending so much mental energy on HIM. I know that's part of the problem too.
Please excuse me for not being caught up on everything around here. I've not been logging in very often.
I must have missed the thread where you decided not to separate? Seems to me that would have been a great way to stop spending so much mental energy on him. You know--out of sight out of mind.
You talk of wishing for a break from each other, but you still live together? Why? I'm not judging, just wondering.
L