My recovering alcoholic husband has been sober for 13 months and he's still gone at AA all the time. I'm usually asleep before he gets home and we both work and have a two year old. I get home around 6pm he leaves soon after that. Then on the days that he has scheduled family time he wants to leave for a meeting and if I get upset about it I'm "jealous of the program". I'm lonely all the time and it's hard working and taking care of my toddler by myself. I'm only 25 but I don't know how much longer I can take being neglected. I've tried talking about it but he gets defensive and says that I hate him going to meetings.