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Old 02-13-2014, 04:54 PM
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KeepinItReal
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You don't have to leave, or do anything for that matter but get yourself thinking and planning. We have all been burnt by an addict and know the control your trying to achieve. It doesn't work. It causes resentment in the marriage.

Don't expect honesty. But, ultimately you cannot control him. You can't force him to stop, love him enough to stop, guilt him enough to stop. Only his higher power can help him stop.

All addicts lie about their addiction. Expect that.

Start a plan. The what if I actually leave him plan.
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