it is NEVER a good idea to rely upon an addict for a source of income or security. that's like tying your own good paddle to a brick and then throwing both overboard.
we are only as sick as our secrets....and right now, you trying to keep what is happening from your folks etc is making you sick. do not rely upon HIS dad to help you.....turn to your own father. and yeah i bet he IS fed up....because you don't deserve this, but unless you get yourself out, you might as well say it's A-OK by you. let your dad help you....get you and the kids out and then figure everything out. this is NO WAY to live.......