Yes he is still there now. I feel obligated to have him there because his father is living with in the house also and he has nowhere to go. I think I want to sell the house because of the memories and it is an environment that I do not want to raise my child, wether he is living there or not. Plus, I feel like I got this house out of an impulse because the offer was on the table and at that time I felt that maybe it would make things better. He did tell me that he was leaving and that he wouldn't be there when I went back, which is a good thing because then I do not have to do it because I don't want to be in that situation where he has been drinking and then I lay that news on him and things escalate badly. I just have to figure out what is going on with his father because the only other family he has is in Washington or Oregon but he is on social security and is trying to get his license.
My situation is a mess that needs to be cleaned BIG TIME.