Insane shame, I can't thank you enough for bringing up the intimacy piece of a relationship. My RAH always set the pace in that area of our marriage. Now there is nothing. NOTHING for a year. I'm getting a bit stir crazy. I'm getting worried! I don't know WHAT is going on and when is it codependent to march the owner of the equipment into the MD. Of course I have talked to him about it and gotten NO where.
This past week my therapist said, well if you need to be honorable if you find someone else. Here I am talking through all the ways I've tried to restart intimacy and my T is a guy. I looked at him and the sexually frustrated Part of me thought, 'you'd do.' And the psychology degree training part of my brain said, "wow I totally see how THIS happens."
I guess I need to change some batteries. Ha ha ha!