For me, I just did. I knew it was time to let go. I finally figured out that this was HIS problem, not mine and that I had carried way too much for way too long. Maybe it was the weight of carrying it all that finally pushed me over the edge.....I don't know. Maybe some serious self-reflecting, soul searching and praying (if that's your thing) on your part? Remembering that you are a person too, not just his wife and the kids mom, but a real person, with real feelings and real needs too. Go do something nice for yourself, just because. Go buy something pretty, or go get that burger you've been craving. Once you start doing a little living for yourself, my bet is you'll start feeling a little more detached from him.
