If he is like the A I dated (notice past tense) he will probably do 1 of 2 things...
1. He will read it, roll his eyes and throw it away.
2. He won't read it, roll his eyes and throw it away.
How many letters have you sent him? What were the results after you sent them?
Do you really think letters will change his course? They will turn on a light bulb and he will stop drinking? I'm sorry, but they won't.
Their first and only love is alcohol.....everyone and everything is a VERY distant second.
Believe me, I wish it was different-it isn't.
Took me a while to get it through my thick head, that's for sure.
Take care of you, heal yourself, and go to Alanon.
Nothing you will do, say or write will make him stop drinking.
Sad but true........
Last edited by AlcoholicLove; 02-06-2014 at 09:42 AM.
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