I just dumped all this crap on him and if he is doing ok.. did I just sabotage him? Now I feel awful. I totally let my fear take over and totally control me.
Boy did this catch my eye! Not easy to figure out how to react when we have dealt with deceit and lies for so long. I let loose on my son today and he went off a bit but ya know….. after, there has been a calmness between us. I think my honesty about what I was thinking, although he didn't like it, may have struck something inside him. After all he's not blameless in me possibly overreacting! He may even think about some of what I said in a positive way! Be gentle with yourself and thanks for posting!