I found out he was using again. All our money is gone, he stole money from his mother, he pawned my guitars and computer, took the money I was saving to pay a phone bill
He spent all of our money, and I just stopped working last week.
If I cut him out completely I will literally not be able to pay my utilities or rent.
honey, if you DO NOT cut him out completely, you and the baby will be living in your car!!!! what he has done is truly unforgiveable. HE did this, with the birth of HIS baby any day now. he stole from his mother, from you and from his own child. he doesn't deserve doodly.
please tell your family...you need people who love you and will help you now more than ever. whatever happens to HIM? is HIS choice by the decisions HE made. he's an addict, it's what they do. you do not need this now. or ever.