Wait...this has been going on since 2008...for over 5 years?? If you haven't been able to persuade her to take her condition seriously by now, you never will. The confirmation from those doctors/support group is BS and I'll bet she's making it up. Anyone who knows anything about alcoholism knows that those three conditions don't mean a thing.
Your children are now 5 years older. How much longer are you going to allow this to continue??