Hi all. I don't know how possible it is to really let go of a spouse that you still live with. I am the Mother of a grown son that is the addict in my life. It has taken me years to learn to let go of trying to fix him or control him. I still falter at times, but am getting a whole lot better over the years. I can only do this because I believe in God & His Love & Mercy. I can believe that I can Let Go of my son's life & give him to God whom I trust to know what is best for him & for his life, knowing full well that my son does have freedom of choice to make his own decisions. I am a work in progress, but I keep working at it & actually getting better. So I can basicly Detach With Love.