I understand what you're saying about the other woman. What happened was that I left. I filed for divorce and sole custody of our son. We both thought it was all over.
Thank you allforcnm. It is fear. He is terrified. He has no one else standing my him to push him to be better and to support him. I feel I owe it not only to him, but to our son to try and help him. Yes, I am actually seeing an addictions counsellor. He has been helping me tremendously! Thank you so much for your comments and the recommendation for the book!
I love him more than anything. I never thought I would be in this position.