my question is mainly about projection i guess. I did my best in a friendship that started, really liked this guy, but after a while i realized he was an addict. it didnt last long, but at the end he was very condescending and even said something about hoping I got the help i needed, etc. Im so frustrated. is this common, he began ignoring me and i feel horrible, sinking into depression. i realize alot of people on this forum have bigger issues with loved ones (families, longer relationships, kids, etc) so i even feel silly for being this obsessed andhurt. story below