My separated AH said I would hate him if I ever knew all the lies he told me. He said he told me so many, he could not remember them all. Oddly, I think thats one of the most genuine things he has told me in the past year!
I know it hurts replaying, wondering when they were lying, etc..we cannot make sense of it. We do not think the same way they do. I am glad you posted it here...great place to vent it out. We understand.