My husband and I no longer have ours. It was nothing but DRAMA. I was a little bummed at first because it meant cutting another tie to my friends and family I had just moved 400mi away from. Now? Ha! Never been happier. It give me peace of mind and in a sense an opportunity to see who really cared to keep in touch. I went from 200 friends to maybe 10, half immediate family. If someone mistakes what I've said its because they aren't listening not misinterpreting. You can't make her get rid of hers if she doesn't want to but there are alternative measures.