MisFixit---I think I understand what you are saying. Hel*, I couldn't take the lies and the hurtful things--still can't--never will be able to, I am sure. That is why I have had to put so much d i s t a n c e between me and them. I can only ever deal again unless they were to come into GENUINE recovery. I completely agree with you that we have to hold people accountable for their dishonest behavior.
Kind of what Hammer says: detach=distance=out of firing range.....LOL
MsFixIt,,,I think we are really on the same wave length...
dandylion