Originally Posted by Hammer

Let's start here and go backwards.

Alanon is for the friends and family. Sounds like you?

Again for the friends and family. Has NOTHING to do with her.

Really. Has NOTHING to do with her.

Since it is FOR YOU, (and AGAIN, Has NOTHING to do with her), you are free to mention, not mention, whatever pleases you or not. You will learn or discover no secrets in Alanon that will in any way harm her.

As for the rest, sounds like she has a problem which for now means you have a problem.

Alanon will help you work on YOUR problem in all this.

btw, you actually have no REAL idea what the doctor really told her, do you?

I mean she went, maybe something was said, maybe not, and that was supposed to get you off her back, right?