(((((((Gracey)))))) - I mentioned this is another post, and yours just reminded me of it so much. Now that I am getting a divorce....my AH has conditioned me to feel so guilty about many things - one of them being that I don't feed my kids healthy enough...forget that I am the one working all day while he doesn't do sh**. so, I was talking to my sister and telling her all the things I do wrong, and (I hate to repeat my prior post) but, she said Sooo. you are getting a divorce because you don't cook healthy, do too much house work, blah, blah, and it couldn't be because all he does is drink when he gets home, doesn't work, and treats you bad. Great logic! Screw him and the combos...think how great it will be when you could if you wanted - have combos every night of the week (not that you would) and to not have anyone around to say a damn thing about it!!! You're doing great sweetie!