Also, just to clarify, I didn't begin to take her SIM card out of her phone to control her actions, but the whole thing between us had to do with her being a bit shady with things on her phone (again long story), and I was ready to just copy it to my phone or computer if possible... Not that it makes it any more excusable, just that it was more about snooping (and what I feel were valid suspicions) than it was about control... And it was a reaction, one that I changed my mind about very very quickly once I realized what I was doing and how it made her feel.