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Old 12-30-2013, 11:27 AM
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AnvilheadII
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count your blessings that she made a clean break and didn't drag things out OR string you along. i think you are on to something that this counseling session might not be in YOUR best interests, esp if you think/hope to get back together. if it were me, which it's not, i'd skip it and just keep moving on. she wants no contact. do that...for her AND for you.

the bit about grabbing her purse and trying to take her sim card out of the phone...have you done stuff like that before? trying to control her actions or invade her privacy? just askin' cuz you might want to reflect on that - we can only change how WE act and react.

really glad to see you are planning on trying out Alanon meetings. make sure to try a few different ones as each group has it's own "flavor."
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