Originally Posted by
allysen 
Another way to look at it: You've been dealt a crappy hand (like the rest of us). The key is learning to play the hand, rather than just wishing you had different cards!
"You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, know when to walk away, know when to run..."
Cue Kenny Rogers!
Kenny Rogers - The Gambler - YouTube
Allysen, you put a whole new spin on that song! And I think your point is valid. It's surely human and normal to feel resentful and angry, but in time, that will fade as the OP realizes how she gained so much more than she lost.