Dunno. Double Barrel had a good thread on that on here, too.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...truggling.html
What a lot of the A's cannot figure intuitively is that a few months of "good" does not just somehow magically cancel out some year(s) of "bad."
That whole thing of "just drop the past," is pretty much the waltz up to Dry Drunk land. You know about "Dry Drunk?" The addiction stops, but the underlying behaviors and attitudes continue. Often leads to Relapse. By contrast look at the real program . . . The AA 12 Steps. Especially step 4 to 9 in this regard. ALL ABOUT reconciliation and true make up. Which is exactly what YOU are asking about, right?
(for the full written text and supporting book, 12 and 12)
Big Book On Line
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So at any rate, the making up and getting things right steps . . . .
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people when ever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
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Nothing much you can do or not about whether he will or won't.
BUT you can get to Alanon . . . and we are supposed to do the Steps, also.
AND THAT makes a Much Better You . . . and I can tell you that you will not be so wrapped up in HIS nonsense.