Originally Posted by
Dominica2 
Mizz, I am just going to start to go to AA again. My concern about telling him is that he will want to quit his job so he can be home. I know that is what he will do. I have been with him 10 years. I know this. I am just scared to death of losing him.
Yes, I do understand your fear. I think AA is a wonderful idea. You have to live your life and you have to be alright with you. No one can really say what is wrong/right in this situation. We can only walk in our own shoes and be comfortable with the steps we take. AA, good. Maybe posting here as well? Like you are now. You can do this. You already have before.