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Old 12-26-2013, 10:39 PM
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Aeryn
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I was just thinking of this old thread today for some reason as I thought about boundaries....and I think the ignore function is a great way of setting boundaries especially when triggered. I've been getting triggered a lot lately (here at SR and at other places as well) as I'm knee deep in therapy regarding some stuff with my NPD mom...so I get triggered by anything even slightly controlling sounding, lecture-like or that makes me feel like there is a air of fakeness about it (disingenuous). These were all behaviors that stifled me in childhood that I'm slowly learning to accept and let go now with my mother but it's hard. Triggers are about me not others but one of the ways of dealing with them is this great ignore button.

I have no idea how I even remembered this thread it just sort of popped up in my mind tonight. Anyhow thought I'd bump it in case it might help someone else.
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