When I had brought this up to my AH several weeks ago, I had suggested 90 days...and I heard it from somewhere else but I'm drawing a blank right this moment (mommy brain strikes again!!) but I thought 3 months was a good time to check back in and see how we both felt after spending time apart.
Are you guys legally separating or just living separately and hoping that time apart will make things better? And is your AH going to have any overnights with your kids?