Welcome. I agree that you should take the time to read the stickies at the top of the page. There's so much info here and should help you is understand better. The famous saying here is "you didn't cause it, you can't control it, you can't fix it." It's very true. I know all too well. My daughter and my son are addicts. If there was a way, I would've found it already. You're going to have to stop doing what you're doing (supplying clothes, giving job leads etc). You'll realize that when you start to read more here. It's THE most frustrating thing to go through. To want to help them (or smack them upside the head sometimes lol) and say "hey do this, or do that, or stop it"etc. it doesn't change them. They have to want to change. Keep reading, keep posting. This is a wonderful, caring family of people here. There always someone online who's willing to respond.