Originally Posted by
Tabbj 
I do crafts all the time for family and friends all the time when I can afford to do them, my husband dose not have to say anything it is the way he looks at me when I am not doing any thing, my marriage is not very good I think we are together till our son ( who is 12) is done with school. everything is his and only his period everything we own is in his name. I asked him for a loan ( which he makes 3x more then me) to help with my bills and a few medical bills was told no get a second job, if I do that I will never see my son.
Ugh - that sounds really hard. Crafting and all that is clearly not going to address the larger issues. I am not sure why he can't help pay for your medical bills since he is making 3x more than you...
If you are just waiting to separate, it can't be a healthy way to live - for you or your son. Can you go into counseling to help you think through this? Is there someone in the community who can help you empower yourself down the line?