Originally Posted by
Mikie9 
I am going to speak to you like you are my sister. If this bothers you, please ignore.
GET THE **** away from him. Not only with the phone and the email etc. Inside your mind get away from him. You will NEVER find someone that works for you with his BS bouncing around in your mind. I am sincere in saying I am not trying to be mean. I had to give up someone like this, that was very detrimental to my happiness, but I kept longing for them, day after day even knowing it as bad for me.... (it does sound a lot like the Alcoholic voice, doesn't it)
If you really were my sister I would be in jail for the next couple of nights to try and keep him away from him. He would be in a hospital right now for ever touching you lol. I am a brother tho, and I would do anything to protect my sister.
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Mikie I don't mind AT ALL your honesty.
Yes, there are a number of "addictions" here that revolve around this young man and our relationship the last year...alcohol, drugs, and intimacy...very powerful addictions. But I know this and recognize it now. And I'm on the mend and need to stay strong.
I promise I will.
I'm a strong Italian woman! Nobody messes with me! I'll be ok. Promise!
Thank you for your honesty and support.