Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
First off let me say hip hip horray about your test results!!! That is super great!
It does seem he is distancing himself. It sounds as though he has some assets. I know in the state I live in anything you acquire during marriage becomes marrital assets. Have you spoken with an attorney at all?? I am sorry if you have said before, I cannot remember.
It is overwhelming. No one can tell you what is right for you, so keep working on you so you can figure out what is best for you and your son.
Hugs!
Yes, I have an attorney. The gist is that if he acquires an inheritance, it is not my asset which I'm fine with. If he buys the house with said inheritance than it, too, will not be a marital asset, it would be solely his. Actually that is most likely a good thing, though, because then I wouldn't be responsible for it. I'm just scared about how all of this is shaking out and I'm scared about how things will play out for our son. So much damage has been done already.