Sorry you are still going through this years later. I would call it stalking. have you ever made a no contact order against her? You can if she continues to harass you. I know many people with Bipolar and borderline personality disorder. Your statement did not sound mean spirited nor hateful towards a select group. I think sometimes people can be sensitive to certain issues. I didnt feel you were being hurtful or mean towards any group but your aexgf.