I have told my RA that there is help online. I have not mentioned this site, although due to the specificity of how and why I joined, if he was looking for the same answers to the question we were asking each other he may have ended up here too.
What is amazing to me is that out stories are all so similar, without a city or even country in "location" I think any of us would be hard to pinpoint. (Note my lack of location)
Now and then I look on the other side of the street (forum) to see what A's are going through. Don't know if it's bad or good, but I do it.