Originally Posted by
PaperDolls 
I'm the RA ... the person I was in a relationship a few years ago used the site against me. At one point she read through ever post I've ever made here (I've been here since 2004 at least) and created a document highlighting things I had said and lied about and told me that this site just keeps me in the problem. She spent days collecting all the data ....
I'm sorry that happened to you, PaperDolls. That's why I tried to draw boundaries from the beginning. I don't even want to accidentally read his stuff poking around there, his recovery is his. And mine is mine, for that matter. He doesn't know my user name but I'm sure he could put it together.