Originally Posted by JansSushiBar

I'd like to begin by apologizing for the length of this post, but I have no one to discuss this with.

I was here nearly a year ago because I was pretty much at the end of my rope - and my marriage. I got a lot of advice to attend Al-Anon meetings, which made me very nervous for several reasons. In the end, I did not go.

I did issue an ultimatum to my AH to quit drinking or get a divorce lawyer.