Originally Posted by
CarryOn 
So, anyone else been here & have any thoughts to share? I know this is a continuous process - lifelong in fact, and that relapse is often part of recovery. I feel much better equipped in dealing with the reality of my life, but I do have hope that we can make this work.
No advice. I think you're doing great and have it covered. Remember that your focus should be you and that he needs to take care of himself. Once he does that, the relationship will improve. I think it's wonderful that the distance and early recovery have made you both receptive to working on the marriage. It's a hard road, but worth it if the love is still there.
Hang in there and good luck!