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Old 12-02-2013, 12:44 PM
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hopeful4
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I am not trying to be harsh, but you do realize even if he did not drink he had bought it, hid it, and was preparing to drink it.

I soooo understand. I have been there. I am not saying you should not confront. I am just saying that you should not bury your head in the sand that he has not been or is not going to drink. I learned the hard way, once you say I am not going to stick w/you if you drink...you will come to expect yourself to stick to your boundary. Of course, that is the best thing you could do for yourself as you are not married and have no children. Not that it minimizes the hurt and feelings involved, it does not.

Hugs...it's hard. Keep posting, you are not alone in all of this!
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