Yes, I negotiated a better deal too (one fewer overnight plus no drinking when with child). Still not the best interest of the child...
I appreciate Hammer's posting of the ACE study. I would like to find any studies or hear any ACOA thoughts on impact of children who spend time with the alcoholic joint custodial parent. I know it was better to divorce than keep a young child in 7-day-a-week alcoholic home and assume the long-term impact is healthier. My child is in therapy, but I would appreciate any ideas on what I can do to help.