Originally Posted by
PippiLngstockng 
But a traumatic divorce can feel even scarier than the A household. The children lose the comforts of a two-parent family, including the happy family image that everyone wants to believe in.
I can just hope and pray that after divorce will come safety, stability and peace! I live for that day.
I think this is where that phrase I see mentioned here fairly frequently comes into play:
Long-term gain for short-term pain. One has to believe the truth about the A will eventually be revealed as things inevitably deteriorate. Thankfully, when that happens, you and yours will be at a safe distance from the flaming crater....